You're a newly married couple. Oh and you did long distance up until last November so have actually only been living in the same country for an entire five months.
You're also in the process of buying your first home which, all going well, you'll be moving into at the end of April. You have a friend who is in a bit of a financial pickle which could be alliviated by them moving into one of your new spare rooms for a period of 6-9 months (not for a free ride - they'd contribute to power/food etc).
Would you even consider it? If so under what circumstances?
5 comments:
No No No No.
Now that I've listed the obviously selfish answer, I would venture to say, a lot of it would probably depend on their personality and how much they respect your privacy. But honestly? I wouldn't - not in your first year of marriage. There's so many other adjustments a third person adds stressers ....
Depends how badly you want to be alone, and if the answer is totally, can that person keep to themselves enough for it to work? If so, I don't see why not. Don't be in a position to regret the good you might have done when it was in your power to do.
Or at least try. You can always change your mind if it doesn't work, right?
I think I would... i think it's the Christian thing to do and it would help your mortgage.
I think I would... i think it's the Christian thing to do and it would help your mortgage.
I say this with the best of intentions.
No.
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